Same attitude as Jesus...

 Philippians 2:5

You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.

One thing that has been standing out about what Jesus was all about these days, is that He was all about His Father's business. His concern was not about what will people say or do, when He does this or say that, His main concern was to accomplish what the Father had sent Him to do. 

In the same way we have been sent to accomplish some sort of a mission or assignment, in one way or the other. We could spend the rest of our lives chasing this dream and that dream, but if it's not aligned with what we were sent to do, then we would've worked in vain. We must never fool ourselves, one day when we return to our Father, we will have to account to what we have done with our lives. Did we obey and do what He asked of us to do. Someone might ask, how do I know if I'm in the will of God? That is a question God can help you figure out. Which is why in the bible, Matthew 6:33 says:  "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need." This means, look, ask what is the will of God for you, in prayer, in reading scripture etc. God will see that you do want to know and He will reveal His will to you. 

There are so many character traits of Jesus that we can and need to adopt, as our model. By so doing, it will please our Father, whom is our priority. Never put what other people say about you above what God says about you. People won't be there on judgement day, but God will.